Ryan Bade, a member of Phi Gamma Delta is making steady progress as he recovers from his serious jet-ski accident which took place in late June. Ryan began to come out of his coma toward middle of August and since that time is getting better and stronger each day.
He is staying in a group home in Omaha, Nebraska which specializes in helping people with traumatic brain injuries recover and return to leading a normal life. Ryan seems to be well on his way, but it will be a long process. Ryan is awake and alert and is aware of what is happening around him. He smiles, laughs at jokes, watches TV (he loves the Family Guy and the Simpsons), arm wrestles, reads, and still demonstrates his sense of humor at times. He will even give you a kiss if you ask for it.
He has a rigorous schedule of various therapies during the week including speech and physical. For a few months Ryan has been able to speak, and while he has difficulty getting full sentences out, his speaking ability is constantly improving. When he speaks you can clearly hear his voice, although his speaking may be slow. He has also starting singing and is amazing many with the fact that he knows the words to so many songs.
As part of his therapy Ryan walks and stands quite a bit with the assistance of therapeutic equipment and the staff at the group home. According to fraternity brothers who have visited him recently, you can see the look of determination in his eyes as he tries to walk further and further each day. Ryan clearly demonstrates the resilience which appears on blue bracelets made in his honor and the persistence which his fraternity values highly.
While in high school Ryan was actively involved in theater productions. His former teacher brought some current students to meet Ryan in Omaha. A number of them saw him perform when he was in school and they were inspired to follow in his footsteps. With the help of their teacher, the students put together a one-act play called "Patience" about Ryan, his family, the accident and its aftermath. The play and the cast won several top awards at a regional competition and was featured on the local TV news in Sioux Falls.
While in Omaha, Ryan's mother is by his side most of the time during the week and his father and step-mother visit on the weekends. Ryan receives visitors on a regular basis and they help to brighten his day.
If you have any questions about Ryan, his condition, or how to help support him and his family during this time, please contact Amelious Whyte, Academic Advisor, Phi Gamma Delta at [email protected] or 612-624-2678. Remember to keep him and his family in your thoughts and prayers.
Ryan’s family has been posting updates on their web site multiple times per week and has had 55,000+ visits so far. The site is, www.caringbridge.org/visit/ryanbade.